Conflict w/2, 7, or 9 Spouse

When you're trying to solve a conflict, the very LAST thing you want to do – especially when you're tired, is fight about the metanarrative or the way you fight.

 

 

In order to help you avoid having to do this in the future and save you SO much time, in today's all-new mini-episode just for you, I'm walking you through how to walk through conflict easier with the helper, enthusiast, or peacemaker personalties (2, 7, and 9) our positivity types! 

 

 

Although positive psychology is all the rage and we have spiritual direction for positivity too, it can feel frustrating when your spouse seems to be rationalizing the REAL problems in your relationship away or unwilling to look at solving them or sit with you when it's time to share in suffering.

 

 

Yet today's episode ALSO helps you to see the good - the positivity types also help us to bounce back from stress and help us not to waste precious time on the inconsequential small pieces that lead our brains to less neurogenesis and more neuroses (both unhealthy attributes for joy and longevity).

 

 

Tune in today to work on titrating your conflict styles well with some detail so you don't lose precious attachment with the one you love oh so much!

 

 

Listen to today's show on Apple Podcast here!

Listen on Spotify here! 

Watch the ad-free version at YouTube!

 

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