Pre-Marital Sessions with Christa
"Christa is absolutely amazing—her sweetness and genuine care made our premarital counseling sessions truly wonderful. She expertly guided us through every topic, making us feel completely comfortable and understood. We are so thankful for her exceptional counseling; she did an incredible job preparing us for our marriage."
- Trenton and Bella Miller, Enneagram Types 3 & 9
Join Christa in an 8-session pre-marital package designed to help couples learn how to meet each other’s needs, better communicate, talk through both the easy and difficult questions, and get to know each other better with the help of a professional.
This package includes 8 55 min meetings with Christa throughout the course of dating or engagement to strengthen the existing bond and foster new deeper connections for the price of $1000 total pre-marital special (or $150 per session if purchased one by one).
Want something else? Christa also offers coaching for couples who are married, soon-to-be engaged, and/or dating - so you can get the care and advice you need from an encouraging professional, no matter your season!
Click the link below for our “Couples Coaching 4 Session” Package!
Details About the Premarital Sessions
The Enneagram in Marriage: An 8-Session Couples Package
(Available in faith-based or non-faith-based formats)
Built on Christa Hardin’s book The Enneagram in Marriage, this eight-session journey helps couples understand how each partner’s type shapes the way they love, fight, heal, and grow together. Each session pairs a chapter of the book with guided conversation, practical tools, and personalized insight for your specific type pairing.
Session 1: Discovering Your Types and Your Glow
We begin by exploring the nine Enneagram types and confirming each partner’s type. Drawing from the Introduction and Chapter 1, you’ll learn how your type has shown up across the stages of your life and how your unique “glow” has shaped the way you entered your marriage.
Session 2: Levels of Relationship Health
Using Chapter 2, you’ll identify where each of you tends to operate in health, average functioning, and stress, and how those levels interact to create the emotional climate of your marriage.
Session 3: Loving with Head, Heart, Body, and Soul
Chapter 3 guides you in recognizing how each partner gives and receives love through thinking, feeling, and instinct, so you can love each other in ways that truly land.
Session 4: Balancing Your Differing Instincts
Through Chapter 4, you’ll explore your instinctual stacks (self-preservation, social, and one-to-one) and learn how differing survival needs can create friction or deepen connection.
Session 5: Navigating Conflict and the Four-Part Apology
Chapter 5 introduces the Harmonic Groups to reveal how each of you instinctively handles conflict. You’ll also learn and practice Christa’s four-part apology as a practical tool for repair when hurt happens.
Session 6: The Vices and Virtues in Marriage
Using Chapter 6, you’ll look honestly at the patterns that pull each of you away from your best self and the virtues that restore balance, with a focus on soul care as a couple.
Session 7: Healing Emotional Wounds Together
Chapter 7 helps you understand the core wounds tied to each type and how to become a safe place for one another as healing unfolds.
Session 8: Afterglow and the Path Ahead
In our final session, Chapter 8 and the Glow Pairing Dictionary help you map the strengths and growth edges of your specific pairing and create a shared vision for the years ahead.
Optional Bonus Session: Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Couples receive access to an exclusive chapter on sexual intimacy through the lens of the Enneagram. Discuss it privately as a couple, or schedule an additional session with Christa for guided conversation.