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The Instinctual Marriage Playbook: Your Complete Guide to Understanding Your Marriage Patterns
Finally, understand why you keep having the same fights—and what to do about it.
You know that argument you have every December? The one about the budget, or whose family to visit, or how much is too much on the calendar?
It’s not about those things. It’s never about those things.
It’s about your instincts—the deeper drives underneath the surface complaints.
What You’ll Get:
- 30+ Page Comprehensive Workbook covering all 6 instinctual pairings (SP/SP, SP/SO, SP/SX, SO/SO, SO/SX, SX/SX)
- Deep Dive on YOUR Specific Pairing - Your strengths, your predictable conflicts, and exactly how to break the dance
- The 3-Step Pattern Interrupt Process - How to pause, translate, and meet both needs creatively
- Communication Scripts for Each Instinct - What to say in the moment when conflict hits
- Cross-Instinct Translation Guide - Learn to “translate” your partner’s complaints into their actual needs
- Quick Reference Guides - Printable one-pagers for SP, SO, and SX you can keep handy
- Lifetime Access - Download it once, use it forever
Who This Is For:
• Couples who keep having the same arguments (especially during stressful seasons)
• Anyone who wants to understand the “why” behind their patterns
• Marriages that feel stuck in a predictable dance
• People are tired of surface-level marriage advice that doesn’t actually work
What Makes This Different:
This isn’t generic marriage advice. These are tools for YOUR specific instinctual pairing. Whether you’re SP/SO (fighting about resources vs. relationships), SO/SX (fighting about community vs. couple time), or any other combination, you’ll get specific strategies that actually work.
Finally, understand why you keep having the same fights—and what to do about it.
You know that argument you have every December? The one about the budget, or whose family to visit, or how much is too much on the calendar?
It’s not about those things. It’s never about those things.
It’s about your instincts—the deeper drives underneath the surface complaints.
What You’ll Get:
- 30+ Page Comprehensive Workbook covering all 6 instinctual pairings (SP/SP, SP/SO, SP/SX, SO/SO, SO/SX, SX/SX)
- Deep Dive on YOUR Specific Pairing - Your strengths, your predictable conflicts, and exactly how to break the dance
- The 3-Step Pattern Interrupt Process - How to pause, translate, and meet both needs creatively
- Communication Scripts for Each Instinct - What to say in the moment when conflict hits
- Cross-Instinct Translation Guide - Learn to “translate” your partner’s complaints into their actual needs
- Quick Reference Guides - Printable one-pagers for SP, SO, and SX you can keep handy
- Lifetime Access - Download it once, use it forever
Who This Is For:
• Couples who keep having the same arguments (especially during stressful seasons)
• Anyone who wants to understand the “why” behind their patterns
• Marriages that feel stuck in a predictable dance
• People are tired of surface-level marriage advice that doesn’t actually work
What Makes This Different:
This isn’t generic marriage advice. These are tools for YOUR specific instinctual pairing. Whether you’re SP/SO (fighting about resources vs. relationships), SO/SX (fighting about community vs. couple time), or any other combination, you’ll get specific strategies that actually work.